Q: Hey!! I’m moving from nc to chicagooo real soon for college. I was wondering if u have any advice on college living? Moving out and living on your own tips?? Love you lots :3
A: So cute that yall ask me about stuff like this, I feel like an older sisterrrrrrr(╥﹏╥)
Ummmm my best advice is don’t put too much pressure on finding a friend group ur first year. The people you initially hang with will probably completely 180 as you discover what you’re into/ what you like to do!
That being said, go out do shit that you’re interested to find people you get along w. Doesn’t necessarily have to be school related but def entangle your social shit with your hobbies so you find people that fuck with the same stuff you do
If you’ve wanted to start a band, try it! A lot of people wanna do that shit in college (yours truly for instance)
Take some classes outside of your major
Try to go to lots of house shows/ house parties. going to house shows when youre out of school makes you feel like a creep, I miss house shows :(
See a lot of music, movies, plays, whateva and go out if you got all ur work done cause after college your energy/availability for that shit goes down 2000%
Don’t date the same person for all four years
Try to eat all your food groups and exercise, you’ll feel a lot better in general if you do that when u can
ummmmmmmmmmmmm call ur parents every once in a while
best of luck ! xoxo